YES or NO which sounds more destructive?

Guess what the answer is…its not ‘NO’ it’s ‘YES’. Just after my answer you might be wondering why such a positive energy, success word termed to be a destructive and devastating thing. No wonders friends, even though it is such a positive word remember that it is also a very powerful word. It is devastating for ones own self if it is not used for the purpose that is should serve the self. Am I still confusing? Don’t worry!

Let me explain. Before reading through let me put a question to you… How many times you have put yourself in pain for the sake of satisfying others? Is the answer infinite which you are not able to calculate? If so then it’s the high time to think of your own self.

Every one of us was cornered to say ‘YES’ to the things that we really don’t want to do. It is not because that we fear for the people who have asked to do so. It is because we fear for others thought that ‘What others will think about me if I say NO?’ This kind of fear have put many people in serious trouble and found no way to come out of that trap.

The biggest problem that every one of us has is what others will think of me if I say NO or YES to a task. This could be solved only when we are able to prioritize between things and judge the level of expectation for things and from others.Think before accepting tasks. If we accept it by saying YES it would be more devastating if we are not aware of how to do the task and if the task not going to help us in any ways.

It is always important how we feel and it’s not our job to think what others will think about us. So try to say NO to the things that really not important and to the things that will put you in trouble.

If you want to say ‘NO’ don’t say ‘YES’